I wish instead of trying to tear down the other girl (she could be crazy! I traveled with my boys, figured out my finances, found a lawyer, dated, and then I met someone whom I knew would never lie to me or treat me poorly. But I think she knows how much I really like her, and that makes things so much easier for both of … By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. I don't actually know who this new person is. I know my partner. Also he's only going to get older and more established so be prepared to be traded in as soon as you stop being young and start demanding stuff from him. That he could even imagine having kids with her. I was completely devastated. Instead, I'm more of the "warm up act," with guys moving onto "the one" right after me. Its been five months since we started dating and we went to the bar last night. .FIYolDqalszTnjjNfThfT{max-width:256px;white-space:normal;text-align:center} Sometimes we can’t help it and jealousy kicks in. Really all you can do is try and build a better life, it won't be long before you see how he was holding you back even if you loved each other you were probably not good for each other. Press J to jump to the feed. Just put on your 5 inch heels so you sway precariously as she passes by. His new girlfriend is very pretty; much prettier than me. Even if you happen to be the most well-rounded, well-adjusted catch in the world, the reality is that you’re still human and that we still live in a looks-obsessed world. Fast-forward a year, and they're still together and he's decided to bring her home to meet his parents. Just make sure you stay as positive as you can! /*# sourceMappingURL=https://www.redditstatic.com/desktop2x/chunkCSS/IdCard.0f76af1b61e8e247d28f.css.map*/._2JU2WQDzn5pAlpxqChbxr7{height:16px;margin-right:8px;width:16px}._3E45je-29yDjfFqFcLCXyH{margin-top:16px}._13YtS_rCnVZG1ns2xaCalg{font-family:Noto Sans,Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;font-weight:400;line-height:18px;display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex}._1m5fPZN4q3vKVg9SgU43u2{margin-top:12px}._17A-IdW3j1_fI_pN-8tMV-{display:inline-block;margin-bottom:8px;margin-right:5px}._5MIPBF8A9vXwwXFumpGqY{border-radius:20px;font-size:12px;font-weight:500;letter-spacing:0;line-height:16px;padding:3px 10px;text-transform:none}._5MIPBF8A9vXwwXFumpGqY:focus{outline:unset} There’s this idea that if his new girl is “less pretty than you are,” fatter, or less stylish, that you somehow won the breakup because after all – he downgraded, right? ._3bX7W3J0lU78fp7cayvNxx{max-width:208px;text-align:center} ._33axOHPa8DzNnTmwzen-wO{display:block;padding:0 16px;width:100%}.isNotInButtons2020 ._33axOHPa8DzNnTmwzen-wO{font-size:14px;font-weight:700;letter-spacing:.5px;line-height:32px;text-transform:uppercase} No need to focus on what other people (include exes) have, be it a new girl or anything like that. Especialy feelings surrounding fertility issues can be complicated and cut more acutely than normal breakup stuff. My boyfriends ex is so so so much prettier than me, she is slim, she has big boobs and really nice hair with a gorgeous face. Don't feel bad, OP :). She also shows so much more composure and confidence than I ever did at her age. What I'm trying to say (but can't seem to convey well) is that though she might be perfect-looking and/or not a downgrade, she's human too, so she will be just as flawed as any of us. && he is now dating someone who's not pretty at all ! G-Eazy cozies up to his pretty costar as he sits atop a vintage car while filming new music video in LA G-Eazy cozied up to a pretty actress on the set of his new music video. I don't have feelings for my ex anymore and I am inlove with current boyfriend but she is so gorgeous it is making me feel so insecure. Cookies help us deliver our Services. I'm starting to feel like my time's running out on starting a family. They have lots of mutual friends it’s not her fault she knows this... think about it she’s upset, this comment isn’t helpful. I consider myself (almost) totally over him by now, but I must admit I was secretly, maybe, a tiny bit hoping for a downgrade to satisfy my ego. Granted, she's probably thinking that whatever she says is going to end up in a blog post. ._12xlue8dQ1odPw1J81FIGQ{display:inline-block;vertical-align:middle} Together with him being older it just sounds like you're getting used. <3. Stop keeping up to date with every aspect of their lives would be the first step. I was looking at pictures of her online... and the lady is absolutely beautiful. The fact that you know a fraction of the information that you do about them is enough to show how willingly obsessed you are. After you break up with an ex, your brain still needs to fulfill the craving that it felt in the beginning of your relationship when you were falling in love. You can't see it but she could totally be crazy. we could just recognize that she's human, imperfect, and ridiculous. Apparently she has basically the same personality as me except with more interests in common with him, and she's fucking gorgeous and thin and has perfect hair. One of them I kept in touch with regularly told me she was actually crying because after me she couldn't enjoy the sex with a small penis. Rum in large amounts was ingested to help me deal with the massive deflation of said ego. And/or remember that she poops. But some months after our breakup, I heard through the grape vine that he had already started seeing a girl at the university. My boyfriend thinks I might still have feelings for my ex but really I don't. Well, its pretty obvious he didn't dump you because of your looks,... your both fairly cute (a bit young for my taste, but cute). In all of our time together, he NEVER once said he wanted to marry me and now he's even thinking about having kids! and since you refer to her as a "hoe", I'm going to say I think I know why your boyfriend , oh excuse me, your EX-boyfriend, dumped you. He wanted to stay friends, but I couldn't handle that. My ex's girlfriend is incredibly beautiful, like way better than me and I recognize this. .ehsOqYO6dxn_Pf9Dzwu37{margin-top:0;overflow:visible}._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu{height:24px}._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu.uMPgOFYlCc5uvpa2Lbteu{border-radius:2px}._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu.uMPgOFYlCc5uvpa2Lbteu:focus,._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu.uMPgOFYlCc5uvpa2Lbteu:hover{background-color:var(--newRedditTheme-navIconFaded10);outline:none}._38GxRFSqSC-Z2VLi5Xzkjy{color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._2DO72U0b_6CUw3msKGrnnT{border-top:none;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-metaText);cursor:pointer;padding:8px 16px 8px 8px;text-transform:none}._2DO72U0b_6CUw3msKGrnnT:hover{background-color:#0079d3;border:none;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-body);fill:var(--newCommunityTheme-body)} For example, Sebastián tried to order dinner for her, but she just kind of jokingly shoo'ed him away and did it herself in our native language. We seek posts from users who have specific and personal relationship quandaries that other redditors can help them try to solve. Just like all of us. I loved him, and we built a life together then suddenly, it was all gone. O and he has anger issues and didn't do any housework! Kudos to you.. well hopefully he's not a crazypants and won't cause drama and trouble in her life... LOOK SICKENING AND MAKE THEM EAT IT YAAAAAS, New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, More posts from the TrollXChromosomes community. It's hard feeling like this. That means that YOU were his type as well and probably look damn good as well. It definitely hurt that he was dating again so quickly, but given her age, I assumed it was just a rebound. According to one study, 88% of 18- to 35-year-olds have stalked their ex’s social media profiles and 80% of them also stalked their ex’s new partners. Oh god this was me the other day...It was followed by a full quart of whiskey.Be strong, beautiful! Hah, so you're basically saying you're in this for the money. I wasn't while I was with him, but now that he just bought a house with his now "Fiance", Im going back down memory lane wishing I didn't cheat on him. .c_dVyWK3BXRxSN3ULLJ_t{border-radius:4px 4px 0 0;height:34px;left:0;position:absolute;right:0;top:0}._1OQL3FCA9BfgI57ghHHgV3{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-ms-flex-pack:start;justify-content:flex-start;margin-top:32px}._1OQL3FCA9BfgI57ghHHgV3 ._33jgwegeMTJ-FJaaHMeOjV{border-radius:9001px;height:32px;width:32px}._1OQL3FCA9BfgI57ghHHgV3 ._1wQQNkVR4qNpQCzA19X4B6{height:16px;margin-left:8px;width:200px}._39IvqNe6cqNVXcMFxFWFxx{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;margin:12px 0}._39IvqNe6cqNVXcMFxFWFxx ._29TSdL_ZMpyzfQ_bfdcBSc{-ms-flex:1;flex:1}._39IvqNe6cqNVXcMFxFWFxx .JEV9fXVlt_7DgH-zLepBH{height:18px;width:50px}._39IvqNe6cqNVXcMFxFWFxx ._3YCOmnWpGeRBW_Psd5WMPR{height:12px;margin-top:4px;width:60px}._2iO5zt81CSiYhWRF9WylyN{height:18px;margin-bottom:4px}._2iO5zt81CSiYhWRF9WylyN._2E9u5XvlGwlpnzki78vasG{width:230px}._2iO5zt81CSiYhWRF9WylyN.fDElwzn43eJToKzSCkejE{width:100%}._2iO5zt81CSiYhWRF9WylyN._2kNB7LAYYqYdyS85f8pqfi{width:250px}._2iO5zt81CSiYhWRF9WylyN._1XmngqAPKZO_1lDBwcQrR7{width:120px}._3XbVvl-zJDbcDeEdSgxV4_{border-radius:4px;height:32px;margin-top:16px;width:100%}._2hgXdc8jVQaXYAXvnqEyED{animation:_3XkHjK4wMgxtjzC1TvoXrb 1.5s ease infinite;background:linear-gradient(90deg,var(--newCommunityTheme-field),var(--newCommunityTheme-inactive),var(--newCommunityTheme-field));background-size:200%}._1KWSZXqSM_BLhBzkPyJFGR{background-color:var(--newCommunityTheme-widgetColors-sidebarWidgetBackgroundColor);border-radius:4px;padding:12px;position:relative;width:auto} I think you should follow the advice in your flair. His new girlfriend isn’t "better than me", but maybe she is better for him than I was. After we left the bar, he told me she was his ex… Then he dumped me because we had 4 stupid arguments. It could be any or all of these, none of which are your fault. tell me about it. .s5ap8yh1b4ZfwxvHizW3f{color:var(--newCommunityTheme-metaText);padding-top:5px}.s5ap8yh1b4ZfwxvHizW3f._19JhaP1slDQqu2XgT3vVS0{color:#ea0027} My ex is a postdoctorate in a related field, and that's how they met. He told me I was beautiful and amazing.. Obviously I am because I do get the attention from everyone else. The one thing that really upset me is that my boyfriend actually described her as being 'tiny with really big boobs'!!! mean! I almost feel as if I was left for her, because he took me off Facebook, etc, as if he was hiding something from me. Mine is on a date right now as I type this. Yes, the ex-boyfriend, new girlfriend thing might be a hard adjustment, but you want to make it a little difficult for your ex too. I do not need to be jealous of my ex’s new girlfriend. ._1PeZajQI0Wm8P3B45yshR{fill:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._1PeZajQI0Wm8P3B45yshR._3axV0unm-cpsxoKWYwKh2x{fill:#ea0027} He got to be choosy because he was older and established. No wonder he cheated on me with her :(. It was all kind of unreal before this. He has always been adamantly against having kids, and I was willing to give that up because he was more important to me. It took me nearly 3 years to get over my 12 year relationship. .LalRrQILNjt65y-p-QlWH{fill:var(--newRedditTheme-actionIcon);height:18px;width:18px}.LalRrQILNjt65y-p-QlWH rect{stroke:var(--newRedditTheme-metaText)}._3J2-xIxxxP9ISzeLWCOUVc{height:18px}.FyLpt0kIWG1bTDWZ8HIL1{margin-top:4px}._2ntJEAiwKXBGvxrJiqxx_2,._1SqBC7PQ5dMOdF0MhPIkA8{height:24px;vertical-align:middle;width:24px}._1SqBC7PQ5dMOdF0MhPIkA8{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;display:-ms-inline-flexbox;display:inline-flex;-ms-flex-direction:row;flex-direction:row;-ms-flex-pack:center;justify-content:center} I completely understand your feelings. It felt AWESOME (not) that he went from me to her -- almost like he had no standards. Inner peace. We do it quite often. Some people are just not equipped to be single and attach themselves to a rebound, some start to mentally separate themselves long before they actually end the relationship and some are just have exceptional luck to find theor rebound is actually compatable. 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She went to one of the best universities in the world and continued onto a school of equal caliber for a PhD in neuroscience. So my ex-boyfriend is happily in love with a pretty girl, who is 8 years younger than me. We met through friends and she actually asked me out afterwards via Facebook chat. Must be something about your personality that was rubbing him the wrong way. ._1x9diBHPBP-hL1JiwUwJ5J{font-size:14px;font-weight:500;line-height:18px;color:#ff585b;padding-left:3px;padding-right:24px}._2B0OHMLKb9TXNdd9g5Ere-,._1xKxnscCn2PjBiXhorZef4{height:16px;padding-right:4px;vertical-align:top}._1LLqoNXrOsaIkMtOuTBmO5{height:20px;padding-right:8px;vertical-align:bottom}.QB2Yrr8uihZVRhvwrKuMS{height:18px;padding-right:8px;vertical-align:top}._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0{font-size:14px;font-weight:500;line-height:18px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._1LLqoNXrOsaIkMtOuTBmO5,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._2B0OHMLKb9TXNdd9g5Ere-,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._1xKxnscCn2PjBiXhorZef4,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 .QB2Yrr8uihZVRhvwrKuMS{fill:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)} @keyframes ibDwUVR1CAykturOgqOS5{0%{transform:rotate(0deg)}to{transform:rotate(1turn)}}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq{--sizePx:0;font-size:4px;position:relative;text-indent:-9999em;border-radius:50%;border:4px solid var(--newCommunityTheme-bodyTextAlpha20);border-left-color:var(--newCommunityTheme-body);transform:translateZ(0);animation:ibDwUVR1CAykturOgqOS5 1.1s linear infinite}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq,._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq:after{width:var(--sizePx);height:var(--sizePx)}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq:after{border-radius:50%}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq._2qr28EeyPvBWAsPKl-KuWN{margin:0 auto} Remember that even though she's tiny and gorgeous, I bet her farts make him almost pass out. :). So if he wants to be with a vile and mean, but beautiful girl. I don't think I could ever be strong enough to stay best friends with an ex! Ok, I'm a city girl, my ex is both city & country guy, && his new girlfriend is straight up country. No matter how wonderful she is, she has to put up with your ex. ._2cHgYGbfV9EZMSThqLt2tx{margin-bottom:16px;border-radius:4px}._3Q7WCNdCi77r0_CKPoDSFY{width:75%;height:24px}._2wgLWvNKnhoJX3DUVT_3F-,._3Q7WCNdCi77r0_CKPoDSFY{background:var(--newCommunityTheme-field);background-size:200%;margin-bottom:16px;border-radius:4px}._2wgLWvNKnhoJX3DUVT_3F-{width:100%;height:46px} More than a couple of my ex's missed me the same way. The honeymoon will end. Totally. Also, what if she's crazy? Honestly, take it as a compliment that he dated you and now he is dating that gorgeous girl. Evidently she had no interest in trying to work it out and she ended it. I'm guessing she wasn't overweight 10 years ago either. 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But then I overheard Sebastián telling his best friend that he wants to marry Livia one day. Behind every smiling selfie exists a desperate need for validation. He was always focused on looks more than personality. tl;dr Ex has a perfect new girlfriend, who he wants to marry even though he told me he's uninterested in marriage and children. But then I overheard Sebastián telling his best friend that he wants to marry Livia one day. Is she prettier than me? Compared to her I look like the biggest downgrade ever. I'm jealous that he's doing all these things for her that he refused to do for me, that he wants to marry her but not me. Sebastián is head over heels for her, and it's not hard to see why. If she weren’t my boyfriend’s ex, I mean. Maybe naively, I was blindsided by the break up. Im not blind, I can see in the mirror. And that is much better than loving someone who doesn't think I am good enough. She just looks like she lives such an exciting life. Well, I was having a conversation with my bf and he mentioned his ex, nothing in particular but out of sheer curiosity as I had no idea, I asked him what she looked like and was stunned when he said she was really pretty, much prettier than me. Don't kid yourself. She married the first 8" she met. Whereas the existing shared history only becomes richer over time. She’s always traveling, or trying a new restaurant, or at some cool event in the city. I'm so mad I could scream. Or you know, once you get kids and you can't be the young fun traveling girlfriend anymore. Like I said, I was stunned and quite dumbstruck! I'm so lucky to have a man who sees past everything and loves me for me. My ex is also still single. My ex-boyfriend is a douche, and I'd rather have my period every day for the rest of my life than be with him, AND I have an awesome boyfriend now, but when I think about my ex's new girlfriend... ugh. Take as much time to grieve as you need to you aren't in the wrong to feel like it's unfair because it IS unfair. Let me say from the start that I feel your pain. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, More posts from the relationships community. 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